June 7, 2010

Judgment…Defining Characteristics

Driving today I was allowed ample time to ponder my most inner thoughts of the day. People, individuals, the human race…who are we, what makes us the way we are? Judgment day is everyday in this world. An opinion can be formed by appearance, social confidence, education, and so much more. The opportunity to full understand someone will be pushed to one side if a preconceived notion is formed by one’s cover. Please, don’t rule out a great read based on limited knowledge.

What contributes to the blueprints of our personalities? Past experiences are a huge factor in how we will one day cope, what we will tolerate, and how we will react. Comfort with certain emotions can open one’s essence up or build a well structured barrier round one’s heart. My belief is that everyone deserves to embrace deep happiness and relish in the warmth of a profound love. However one approaches the route of accepting true and raw emotion is entirely up to that person’s comfort, but their coping mechanism doesn’t mark them less deserving.

Future apprehensions also will mold the current acceptance of certain emotions. Fear is a very powerful feeling that can cause one to halt from the core outward. Knowing the state of one’s character will structure another with the positive ability to adapt while bringing comfort to extreme anxieties. Having the understanding of oneself will hold a level of empowerment like no other.

Learning, I have learned so much about myself and my own coping methods. Judgment, I will not pass this upon anyone. I have been on the receiving end of harsh and unwarranted judgment. I have suffered vast names thrown my way and washed of connection as people didn’t take the time or opportunity to learn what makes my clock tick. Faults…this world may veiw them as an influence of negativity weighing on one’s being and I view them as individuality. There is no such thing as normal, or the perfect person…the unexpected, the spontaneous freedom allows us all to contribute to the world on a positive measure.

Take a moment…just once. Strike a conversation with a complete stranger. I can guarantee that a level of inspiration will hover as you continue with your day. We all have stories, experiences, pasts…we are all a colorful part of what makes the world go round. Don’t judge another and more importantly, don’t judge yourself. Respect who you have and ponder your own path of development. Know that you deserve the purest love and deepest happiness this world can offer. Smile, the power will bring illuminate your entire day.

All just a piece of a very large puzzle…That puzzle—society

~Nina~

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